Stylist's Q&A: "My Fiance Wants the Groomsmen in Khakis + Blazers, I want Black Tie. How Can We Compromise?"

For the last couple of weeks, I've had the pleasure of guest blogging on brides.com {and even hosting a live bridal style q&a on their Facebook page}. It's been a blast to chat with brides about the stylish details that will make up their big day.  But there's one problem: We have a surplus of unanswered questions!  To make sure we get to them all, I'm opening the forum on the Merci New York blog as well.  Check out last week's q&a here, and be sure to scroll down for a common conundrum on menswear!

1. Faconnable jacquard paisley print tie, $75; 2. Valentino silk jacquard tie, $81; 3. Cantarelli striped tie, $69; 4. Faconnable jacquard paisley print tie, $75; 5. Alexander Olch plaid woven wool bow tie, $110; 6. Countess Mara reversible bow tie, $25; 7. Alexander Olch woven wool bow tie, $110; 8. Ike Behar silk paisley bow tie, $30; 9. Forzieri Italia, yellow polka dot bow tie, $68; 10. Ike Behar silk plaid bow tie, $30.

Question {from Heather D.}: Hi Jacqueline! My fiancé is interested in having khaki-style pants and a colored, more casual shirt for our wedding, but I really like the "fancy" tux/suit outfits. Any suggestions for a compromise for what we can do? Thanks! :)

Answer: Hi Heather!  It’s tough to land on an answer here without knowing the style of your wedding.  If you are having a more casual celebration, or an outdoor wedding, your fiance’s vision may be on point.  It can often look odd (and not to mention hot and uncomfortable!) for the groom and his guys to be overly dressed for an outdoor affair.  On the flipside, if you’re having a more formal wedding, I can understand your vision for a more cohesive, “buttoned up” look.
Here’s a compromise: Why not consider a more whimsical bow tie or furnishings with a suit?  It’s a step more dressed than a blazer and khakis and a touch less fussy than the black tux look.  Above are a few reasonable {and fun} ties we’ve curated to inspire your groom and his guys.  Happy shopping!
xx,

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